tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8083832040968229848.post3107666197977597528..comments2024-03-18T03:43:09.689-04:00Comments on a blanket 2 keep: i went backwardsEmily @ablanket2keephttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10398858102692984237noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8083832040968229848.post-25202273185784464212012-05-26T10:42:38.744-04:002012-05-26T10:42:38.744-04:00Thanks hon. Yea I totally believe that too.Thanks hon. Yea I totally believe that too.Emily @ablanket2keephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10398858102692984237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8083832040968229848.post-21480850310674143532012-05-25T22:52:33.098-04:002012-05-25T22:52:33.098-04:00The blanket is absolutely amazing but what a sweet...The blanket is absolutely amazing but what a sweetie your husband is! <br /><br />Sometimes we just go backwards.... I actually think everyone struggling with IF goes through the stages of grief....Annettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05914988157670090167noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8083832040968229848.post-13948505037397623172012-05-25T03:14:11.682-04:002012-05-25T03:14:11.682-04:00Thanks. I really appreciate it.Thanks. I really appreciate it.Emily @ablanket2keephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10398858102692984237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8083832040968229848.post-72369751047312550152012-05-25T03:13:21.080-04:002012-05-25T03:13:21.080-04:00I see a therapist once a week have been since Augu...I see a therapist once a week have been since August. She has helped me tremendously. I'm scared to think of where I would be without her. I have been thinking about doing a session with my Hubby soon. He has gotten a little better at communicating, but maybe a little help would do some good. Thanks for the suggestion. It's nice to have people care how I'm feeling.Emily @ablanket2keephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10398858102692984237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8083832040968229848.post-86962773693208027652012-05-25T03:09:01.086-04:002012-05-25T03:09:01.086-04:00I think he will be pushing me and probably carryin...I think he will be pushing me and probably carrying me the whole way. I think being detached and numb is a good thing for me right now.Emily @ablanket2keephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10398858102692984237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8083832040968229848.post-29663879683300015732012-05-25T03:06:51.854-04:002012-05-25T03:06:51.854-04:00Thank you so much. I think I will definitely need ...Thank you so much. I think I will definitely need a break after this cycle. My Hubby reminds me often of what could be waiting for us and right now I need those reminders. I really don't know what I would do without you guys.Emily @ablanket2keephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10398858102692984237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8083832040968229848.post-9209346745955531952012-05-25T03:02:17.291-04:002012-05-25T03:02:17.291-04:00Thanks Audrey. I think right now him picking me up...Thanks Audrey. I think right now him picking me up is the only thing that's keeping me moving.Emily @ablanket2keephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10398858102692984237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8083832040968229848.post-81605191949626870152012-05-25T03:00:21.200-04:002012-05-25T03:00:21.200-04:00Thank you. He is sweet. Cool that we are on the sa...Thank you. He is sweet. Cool that we are on the same day. I will have to check out your journey.Emily @ablanket2keephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10398858102692984237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8083832040968229848.post-75161513038394865932012-05-24T18:55:17.233-04:002012-05-24T18:55:17.233-04:00Thinking of you hun... and want to give you a big ...Thinking of you hun... and want to give you a big hug. This is such a hard road and so unfair. Your husband sounds so supportive and we're all here for you too. I always find it hard to get going with the next cycle when my heart is breaking... sending you love and hope from afar xoxoDandelionBreezehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06988561541523178095noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8083832040968229848.post-6688203908315421362012-05-24T02:32:02.997-04:002012-05-24T02:32:02.997-04:00Your hubbie's text was just beautiful. And he...Your hubbie's text was just beautiful. And he is absolutely right! Please don't give up even though it is so hard. I don't like to be prescriptive but can I suggest perhaps a couple of counselling sessions for you? It sounds like you are quite burned out (similar to how I was feeling earlier this year) and just talking about it and getting your feelings off your chest might do you the world of good. B xBWhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02678105236745432509noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8083832040968229848.post-38649180069405376122012-05-23T11:19:15.088-04:002012-05-23T11:19:15.088-04:00Don't worry! Its ok to be numb about it! On my...Don't worry! Its ok to be numb about it! On my last cycle I was so tired of it all that I just went through the motions, pretty much detached from it all. It is hard and all that matters is that you go through the steps. Keep your head up. You are stronger than you think you are to keep moving (even if your hubby is pushing you part of the way!) We all need a little push sometimes to get through the hard parts! HUGS!Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04098469099067579372noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8083832040968229848.post-33859178630338021192012-05-22T22:29:25.667-04:002012-05-22T22:29:25.667-04:00Oh your husbands text has me in tears. Don't ...Oh your husbands text has me in tears. Don't be afraid to step away for a few months and give yourself some time to regain control over your life and your happiness. In the meantime, I know it is so hard, but try to remind yourself what may be waiting for you at the end of this cycle. You are so muh stronger than you think, we all are. Lean on us as much as you need to...thinking of you, hang in there!!Lhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10497936584795239975noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8083832040968229848.post-31698926708581631182012-05-22T22:24:34.301-04:002012-05-22T22:24:34.301-04:00Just saw your blanket and it's beautiful! You...Just saw your blanket and it's beautiful! You are so talented! Emily, you are as strong as you think you are. You are still here, still trying, and still finding positivity even when you are down. Having wonderful husbands pick us up when we can't continue really helps, too.Ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05382178389166257953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8083832040968229848.post-64499907165922351152012-05-22T21:44:29.996-04:002012-05-22T21:44:29.996-04:00Hello from ICLW! What a lovely blanket! Your husba...Hello from ICLW! What a lovely blanket! Your husband sounds so sweet. :-) Sounds like you and I are on the same day of our cycle. Today is CD3 and I have my baseline tomorrow since I couldn't get in today. I am looking forward to following your story. :-)One and Done?https://www.blogger.com/profile/12138505446552865273noreply@blogger.com